URGENT APPEAL
DSS #81 member Kirsten Shockey
wants to alert you that her 10 year old grandson in
Update (13-Nov.): The past month has been hard for Sam emotionally. He wants to come home so badly. Right now we're only waiting on his equipment to be delivered to the house and nursing to be staffed. Once nursing is staffed and his bed and other equipment are delivered, the hospital discharge team will set a firm discharge date! He had hoped to be home before his birthday, Nov. 13, but we weren't able to make that happen. The current goal is to have him home by Thanksgiving, although realistically we're probably looking at early December. So we've planned a party for him here at the hospital. Sam's birthday menu request ~ homemade Fettuccini Alfredo, vanilla cake, red frosting and grape filling with French vanilla ice cream!
Physically Sam is doing really well. The recovery is still slow, but it's steady. Yesterday, he squeezed my hand with his left hand when I asked him to move his thumb for me! He's grown so much these past months. Sam's started putting weight back on. He's not the little boy we brought to the hospital any more. Sam has been having a hard time getting motivated to get up and do things every day. He hasn't been getting many visitors recently.
Sam's made a new friend – a boy who is also on the Rehab unit who is also on a ventilator and in a wheelchair. They've spent time playing video games and talking and being boys. One of the receptionists has brought her two nephews in to spend time with Sam several times which has been great for Sam. He has really enjoyed having other boys to interact with.
Update (5-Oct.): On October 1, Sam had his “halo”
removed! So very happy about that! With the completion of RT training, we can take
Sam out of his room "portable" - which means Sam in his wheelchair
with no extra trailing bits of equipment (everything will be stored on his
chair). We will be able to schedule his discharge date, soon…about damn time!
We'll be figuring out the best way to
get him to the bath and in and out of the medical equipment. It's a tricky thing with him still being on
the ventilator and needing constant support throughout the entire process. Next thing is giving him the haircut he wants
(he likes his hair short!) and scrubbing his head (which is in much the same
state as his chest and back).
Sam has consistent feeling to his
fingertips on both hands now, and intermittent feeling on both feet! It feels like it's been forever, but when I
stop and think, it's still really only been three months, which is nothing. He's so strong and we’re so proud of him. He's terribly excited about coming home.
Update (14-Sept.): Sam is back under
the care of the Pulmonary Team. He gets
to stay in his room on the Rehab unit which is nice because he very much likes
the nurses there. He has feeling all the
way to his fingers on both hands as of a few days ago!
The doctors will soon be able to set a
discharge date, so we're busily working on getting the house ready for Sam to
come home. The doctors have said that he
will definitely be home by Thanksgiving, but we're working on getting him home
sooner than that.
His spirits are high and he's beginning
to behave like a regular kid again: being silly, cracking jokes, laughing! Sam really misses being home. Having visitors helps so much. We've really appreciated everyone who's been
able to stop by and spend some time with him.
Update (24-August): Sam has been on the
Rehab Unit for 10 days now and is making so much progress. His spirits are so high - it's just amazing
to witness!
He has Occupational, Physical and
Speech therapy twice each day, a morning and an afternoon session of each. He's working so hard that he's finally
actually sleeping normally again! He's
been getting up out of bed every day this past week into his new wheelchair and
has gone outside in both rain and sun, visited the playroom and gone to see the
swimming pool too. He enjoys his
newfound mobility and has been spending more time out of bed during the day than
in it.
He met the goal of finally having the
cuff on his trach tube completely deflated during
speech therapy. He is now up to nine
minutes of deflation. The goal now will
be to increase the amount of time the cuff is deflated until he can tolerate it
constantly. At which point he will be
switched over to a cuffless trach
tube. It's really the first step to
weaning him off the ventilator.
Deflating the cuff on the trach tube is what
allows Sam to regain the use of his voice (allowing air to flow across his
vocal chords). His speech therapist
discovered that giving Sam something interesting to read ~ in his case, she's
been printing out stuff on dragons! He
doesn't pay attention to the clock and focuses just on reading aloud and is
making huge leaps forward.
Sam is eating solid food every day now
– at each meal! It's only a few bites
per meal at this point, but it's better to take it slow and easy and work his
stomach back up to tolerating digesting solids again. The eating is one of the more difficult tasks
for Sam because his stomach has been so touchy with all the changes they've put
him through trying to get him the calories he needs daily. He hasn't really felt hungry, but his parents
reminding him that eating real food is so much better for him than being fed
continuously through a tube he pushes forward (even if he does complain he
still eats something).
Every day has been working toward some
form of progress or improvement over the previous day, and Sam has been meeting
those goals and exceeding them and amazing everyone who works with him. The biggest achievement so far happened on
Thursday morning ~ Sam can shrug his shoulders!
He was so proud of himself. He
was showing off to everyone who came to see him. Big ol' smile
plastered across his face!
Thank you all so much for the good
thoughts/prayers/wishes/hopes you've been sending to Sam and my family. There is nothing that would ever be enough to
repay that in my mind.
Update (14-August): Sam is still on the general floor but is being prepped to move to the rehab floor any time between tomorrow and Monday. He is still fighting hard. He now has feeling all the way down to the palm/back of his right hand, down almost to his left bicep and down to his sternum. He can't move anything else yet. Sam is still on the ventilator. That's it for now…still quite the long haul.
Update (2-August): Sam
is now out of the ICU and on the general floor. He can now eat solid foods. Any liquids need to be thickened to nectar consistency.
He is a little food shy after his first
day of eating solid food. He was
ambitious and ate an apple and the next day his stomach was pretty angry with
him, so he is gun-shy on solid food right now.
Update (23-July): Sam
had his traech tube put in yesterday evening. He is
now able to talk at a whisper and even vocalize a bit. The physical therapist will be working with
him next Monday on a swallow test, followed up by another test to ensure no
food will be going into his windpipe. If everything checks out OK he'll be
slowly moving on to solid food. He is
very lonely and wants visitors, so if you have a moment to stop by it would be
much appreciated.
Update (16-July): Sam's left lung has almost completely cleared of mucus. It had collapsed and was stuck. This is no longer the case. His right lung has a bit of fluid, but that is normal given his state. He is awake and communicative most of the time.
The physical therapist doctor came in Friday and did some tests on him. She concluded that he has full communication from his brain all the way down to his spine. She said that it was a good sign. We think it is a fantastic sign and gives us a foundation on which to build a solid recovery. Sam is starting to feel pain in other parts of his body. This morning was his right shoulder as the PT was doing his range of motion exercises on him. We're doing our best to psychologically prepare him for the coming onslaught of increased pain as his body ramps itself back up. He has a good grasp on the notion that pain. His body is healing and coming back online. Additionally he has a good grasp on the notion that it is OK to rest from the fight once in awhile to regain strength for more healing. His traech and feeding tube procedure will happen tonight or tomorrow. We believe it will accelerate the healing process due to his increased morale. He cannot wait to have all those tubes out of his mouth and face. It will also allow him to talk and the physical therapist is excited to get him eating solid food again. She is all about setting independence goals for Sam, allowing him to do whatever he can do on his own. Getting Sam out of the ICU is our next major goal. The marathon goes on.
*************************************** Kirsten wants to humbly thank everyone who has donated their time, energy, funds, food or any other resource to our family and our boy – without which we would not have made it this far. No words will ever be able to express how very grateful we are. I am left wondering what we've done to deserve the selfless and beautiful people that surround us, let alone those who have donated that don't even know us. Love is amazing. Kirsten says she’s been pressed to spell out the needs our family has and reminded that pride is not an option. Sam's donation account was recently moved to Bank of America (Oct. 15). Contact Kirsten on how you can send in a financial donation. Kirsten is asking for financial help. Immediate relief can be given in the form of gift certificates from a grocery store, like Winco, etc. She is asking the Danish community across the PNW for help.
For more details, please contact Kirsten: <Kirstendansk@aol.com> or (503) 769-7768
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Updated 13 October 2008, 8 pm